I feel like I have been through a lot
at times it feels like too much
it feels like seasons are passing
and I am not turning out to be all I can be
and nothing is happening
I am becoming a lesser version of me
and it feels like I am trespassing.
I feel like I have broken so many of the rules
that feels like treason.
I guess what I really want
is someone to stay with and believe in me.
I guess what I really want to know,
God, and the power I never really invested in you,
can you tell me, is there a reason?
Sorry to get here late. I’m intrigued by the title you chose for this post. It holds hope. And the question at the end is a searching one. I remember breaking so many rules it felt like treason to my true self, but in time I came back and forgave myself (mostly.) You will too. The reason is that there’s more to learn, and you never know what surprises are right around the corner. As for God, you are deeply loved, in all your versions. Like Melinda said, God is always there for you. God believes in you, Harlon. And so do I.
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Thanks JoAnna, for sharing your insight with me and that is why I write, so I can explore the difficcult, get it out of my system and also find support from friends, such as yourself, Blessings, Harlon
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I struggle with this question as well. But simply put, yes there is a reason. We won’t understand going through it – but I look forward to the day that I do! Beautifully written.
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Thanks, and here is to that time and place where we find our reasons. Peace, Harlon
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I don’t believe there is ever a reason for our difficulties and our suffering, Harlon, if by reason we mean something along the lines of: we get what we deserve. But at a deeper level I believe the pscyhological pressures magnify and become overwhelming when, for whatever reason, we find ourselves cut off from the source of Love and of Life within us. Call it God if you like. Call it love, the awareness of beauty, the awareness of an authentic presence within us, the desire to know and be known and the realization of this desire’s fulfillment. Wishing you peace, my friend, and a restored connection to what is most you, in you. Companionship is a gift we give ourselves first, I think, and from there it ripples outwards. Hang in there, and may the magnification of difficulty cease, and things fall into manageable pieces for you, my friend. May you discover the companion both within and without!
Peace
Michael
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Thank you Michael, your words are always helpful in me reorienting myself. Peace, Harlon
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I understand. Believe me.
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Be Well
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Harlon, once again, you put into words what we humans face at varying times of our lives. We question our reason for being. We question our lack of progress in achieving our dreams.
I was especially struck by the realization: “I am becoming a lesser version of me.” In a world where only a very selective minority are afforded the opportunities to develop to their fullest, we are all becoming lesser versions of ourselves. It is a symptom of our times. Awareness of where we stand is but the first step in moving forward.
Be a loving presence in the world around you. The rest will follow ❤
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Sounds like some heavy duty construction going on to us. This may be some of the fruit. Good poem. “Looking For The Light” says a lot.
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Thank you.
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‘I have broken so many of the rules that feels like treason.’ Gaaaagh, being human is such a complicated tapestry.
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It is, and that is what makes it beautiful and that is what makes it difficult. Comments and observations definitely fall under the beautiful column. xo Harlon
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So you never invested on yourself and ….. basically in the poem you say you are fucked up,
I got the solution then, we have to write a poem together.
Something like this….. hit it!
O dear Lord
I can ask you only one word
That is…..Survival of the fitest
I say so on my behest
For all you, and you,not the rest
Love ya my friend, nice poem you got here, as always.
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I am totally up for writing something twisted together. Sign me up! Harlon
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Sounds good, except the last part…. Harlon?
Are you high? I know your high but I won’t say good by
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Reblogged this on Survivors Blog Here.
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Harlon
God is always with you no matter if you’ve paid no mind to him. God sent his only son, Jesus to die for our sins. That’s a huge sacrifice, send your heavenly son to walk on earth and experience life like mankind. He was cut off at every step it seemed, he kept going for you and me. All you do is talk to God, he understands your troubles. Ask for guidance, please steer me in right direction, what your heart is weeping for. The answers won’t suddenly appear yet will come sometimes in the smallest messages. You have to talk and listen closely. If everyone on earth left today, God will be at your side.
In the past, I would ask God to help get me this or do that, all selfish things. We have to understand God and praise him for the good in your life. The smallest, nano bits you can find. My mother is alive today, I’m alive today, a rainbow, we have to give thanks to God. He will help you, spend everyday on your knees till they hurt. You’ll learn his language.
I’m always here for you, we walked the same path as a caregiver and it’s exhausting. There were times I wanted just choke gramps. I would make biscuits and just as I brought to table, he wanted oatmeal. Caregivers have to suck it up and carry it around. You are carrying the baggage of two sides of you. Please keep that in mind. I worked so hard to just get 15 uninterrupted time to breath. It’s a thankless job, so is being a mother. We do because we love. That means many times putting ourselves second.
I hope my last email gave you some ideas on how to reward yourself. Huge Hugs. M
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Thanks Melinda, I value the light that you shine on my path. Hugs, Harlon
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